I posted a couple days ago. Basically the guy I have been fucking for a couple years begged me to come over and then when I did, said I smelled/tasted bad so he didn’t want to keep going. As we texted, he persistently accused me of lying about showering and then randomly threw out how he had this issue with his ex when she was cheating on him. (He made me agree to only have sex with him). I noticed that ever since then, we/he would make plans and then would have an excuse. I kept pushing and he ended up telling me that he felt like what we were doing didn’t feel worth it to him anymore and how last time turned him off to me and that “we’re toxic so he doesn’t like it and doesn’t think it’s worth it. (mind you, this guy has ruined multiple of my friendships, has called me names, has yelled at me in public, etc.) So I tried asking how I was toxic and the most he really said was that I asked him if he was okay or if he was mad at me too much. I tried to explain and he said he “wants space to think about what he wants”. I just decided to leave him alone and do my own thing. That same night he texted me later and asked what I was doing and who I was with. Then today, he was texting me to tell me when he was getting up and when he was getting off work and what he was doing for the night. Or it was storming tonight and I DoorDash so he texted me and said that if I was out I should go home and stay home for the night. I posted something about wanting my nipples pierced and he said he’d want to see it.

But like ????? I thought you said this is too toxic and you don’t want me anymore?