There's something going on with my mom she's passive aggressive angry you know when you can tell someone is angry and some people let off stress on love ones they take it out on them and it's hard being a family member and not knowing if you did something to upset them? My mom goes to church and there's young women there my age and she is so kind, patient with them gives them advice has these talks she smiles and laughs and has coffee and conversation with them spending time with them and we have gone over to the church women houses and my mom who does not clean her own house begin to ask to wash dishes, sweep and when we go home the smile laughter is over her face is serious she begins to get passive aggressive she will not wash her dishes will not sweep or help together clean up her house and she doesn't talk to me it's like pulling teeth to make small talk she's sarcastic towards me and will not want to converse with me she's rude and I feel this deeply because I'm her daughter she hugs this woman from the church calls her her daughter and she never hugs me she never talks to me when I invite her out she asks when is it going to be over she has better things she can be doing honestly it's painful and when someone from church asks her she goes running and is smiling and spends hours there and if I ask that of her to spend family time or even make plans with the people of the church she gets angry and say she doesn't have time and I feel very bad we live in the same house and she it's like I'm living with a ghost she doesn't want to be seen or bothered spoken to doesn't want to talk spend time together I'm just not sure how to have better relationship like the young women who are my age and she treats them better than her daughter what are ways to repair our mother daughter relationship

What would you do?