Quick backstory I was in an abusive relationship with a man who was verbally abusive mentally abusive, sometimes physically sometimes sexually and cheated on me

Two of the biggest things he always said to me was you love arguing when I was just talking and you love making me out to be the bad guy …………..it was detrimental.

Anyways, I got out of that relationship a long time ago. I’ve been in individual therapy to heal and grow.

I started dating somebody for 4 months

Who I thought was a really great guy until he starts drinking.

He says mean things to me and then when he sobers up, he tells me he’s never mean to me and didn’t mean what he said and I misunderstood him I didn’t get what he was saying …. I fell for this sooo many times

Well, this evening he kept denying things

I mentioned his birthday is next week and he said no it’s not

I said you’re clearly wasted and he said I’m not

Then he admitted that he was

I asked how much did you have to drink?

He said oh I haven’t been

Then he said OK maybe I’m a little inebriated

He said you love to argue when all I did was point out he was denying things and you love making me out to to be the bad guy. Why do you have to dissect everything I say?? that’s kind of weird that you have to be like oh what’s that mean and what’s this and that and that and that

So I told him I’m not gonna be in a relationship with somebody who says the same things that I was told when I was in an abusive relationship. I’m in therapy for this, you know that and know what I been through. You’re an asshole. You sound exactly like him you say exactly what he said word for word. Also, may the next girl not be the one to dissect everything that you say. goodbye. I’m done. Don’t call me. Don’t text me.

 I know for a fact come morning he is going to be like oh I didn’t mean any of that. I’m never mean to you. I didn’t deny anything. You completely misunderstood what I said I didn’t mean that you can’t compare me to your ex. I’m not like him.

I mean, I did block him anyways so he can’t say anything

Did I make the right call in ending this or was I irrational????