My sister has 3 boys. My nephews are 5, 8, and 11. I don't have any kids so I always try not to shame parents since I'm not one. Me and my sister have different dad's. My sister's dad died in prison for being p3do. His victims will all boys and he did some horrific things to them. My nephews know about my sister's dad and she's even read his article so these young children know in detail what he did. Which I think is a bit much. But what she does that I completely disagree with is if they are acting out she will tell them she's gonna call grandpa or send them to Grandpa because they know what grandpa does to bad little boys. They don't know he's dead. It bothers me and I told her threatening her kids with child molestation isn't the right way to handle bad behavior. She said she would never actually do it. Plus her dad is dead. It's how she gets her kids to behave and it's not my business. I said I know she would never do that but she's making her kids think she will. Not only that she's painting CSA as something to happens to bad kids. As in it's the children's fault. She told me I don't have kids so idk. I said I don't but I know using CSA to get your kids to behave is bad parenting. She's upset with me and told me not to talk to her. I don't have kids so maybe parents can give me some perspective.