Told my husband off

I'm just burned out my husband I feel like has weaponized incompetents. I finally told my husband this morning I can do everything without him and I have. I take care of everyone all the time. Baby is crying at night he's never gotten up with any of our kids. Kids wake up sick I got it. He doesn't lift a finger. When he has he acts like he doesn't understand how to do basics. This morning while tending to children, making breakfast, packing a cooler, packing a beach bag. He asked me why I'm so upset when he finally rolled out of bed. He takes care of himself. If I say I need help he calls me a victim. Truth is I am the victim but I don't need him. I told him in the rush of getting out the door today. I legit can do life alone. I have been doing it.

If I choose to stay in a marriage it isn't because I have to. I can do parenting and life alone. I don't need a man child expecting me to cater to him.