Venting TW addiction

Today my boyfriend and sons father said to me “gaming is no different than a drug addiction”

He’s a gamer. He games basically all night long, sleeps until 3 pm. It’s just getting to be too much, it’s been too much on me for a long time now. He doesn’t have a good relationship with our son either. Couple weeks ago my friend took me on an overnight trip, well he contacts me at 1:30 am I was sleeping but he texted and told me I can’t leave overnight again but the way he said it was really mean. Anyways, my son is autistic, he’s been going to therapy and everything that I’m doing with my baby. Now his dad isn’t involved at all. Idk if this is not right but with me having a special needs child it makes it extremely difficult to work. Nobody wants to hire me with my schedule because my schedule is on my son’s schedule. Now I’m trying to sign him up for ssi so I don’t have to work at this time. Maybe I could take that income and find a place rent is based upon your income? That’s basically my only way out, and idk if that can happen at all.

Something’s gotta give at some point.

Oh yeah…he said that about the game but now he’s back to playing it. He’s just trying to manipulate me so I don’t leave.