My man and I have been in a serious long term relationship for 7 years. We go out and do things occasionally, but mostly we spend time at home together. That can be really fun as one of our favorite things to do is unwind and watch tv together. Lately I’ve been wishing he took me out more. We’re both students paying for college, so by no means do I expect to go out every weekend or even super frequently. But sometimes it’s nice to go out to dinner together and enjoy each other’s company in a different setting. I’ve expressed my desire to be taken out and it’s usually met with “you never wanna do anything when I ask.” But unlike him, I don’t like going out to bars. I like candle lit wine dinners, dim settings that make me feel elegant and pretty. I never drink, and if I do I babysit the hell out of it lol. I just feel like we have different ideas of going out. My problem is also that I’m indecisive. If I feel like I’m the one that has to plan our date, I don’t feel… in my feminine if that makes sense. I know I know, I can’t always expect him to plan something all of the time, can I? But then again that’s what I want. I wish he would.. plan SOMETHING. Am I being unreasonable in my wish? Or should I just learn to appreciate the ways he DOES show up for me in our busy schedules? I guess I just miss the feeling of “dating” a little. Anyways, any advice would be appreciated! Thank you in advance 💌✨🤍