I’ve had a friendship with a guy for several years. The last couple years it seems we’ve gotten closer and our friendship feels much deeper. I often feel like we have an almost soulful connection and he’s also said things insinuating the same thing. Knowing his history, he usually lets women make the first moves before entering a relationship. A lot of people tell me that I should always let a guy do the pursuing… that if he doesn’t chase you now, he never will. I feel very confused and torn because what we have seems special and very real, but a part of me wants to keep it platonic unless he would make a move.. maybe he hasn’t made any moves because he’s unsure of his feelings? Any thoughts or advice welcome.