Hi,

I’m dating someone, and most times things are good. We have dated for two months officially, but before that we were friends for 6 months.

Yesterday, I had an anger outburst, I really decided to hold myself and I was quiet till I got to my place, he dropped me on his way to a work travel. I was mad because I asked him if we could go out somewhere and he was totally in for it, he even told me to look for a nice place and we agreed on a spot. He was slow in packing and ended up telling me we cant go anymore, time was gone.

The reason I was so mad was because i realized that he has only taken me out for 2 days , one of which i suggested, and the rest of the times we are in the house eating take out.

Sometimes he travels for work all week and on the weekends, he wants to stay indoors, but im the opposite, i prefer to be out on weekends since i don't really travel and work hybrid .Gardens and green spaces are a stress reliever for me.

Now i have burn out and I'm in the middle of my exams and working at the same time and i really need a break. Been trying to convince him that we go for vacation together but i feel like im planning it alone and he will probably have an excuse last minute.

How do you guys deal with dating people who are in different head-spaces with you, because right now i feel like our interests don't align and i cant keep up any more. I also feel like i will spend the rest of my life in the house, and i don't want that.

Im also not talking to him , just to think about this.

Please advise me.