I got accepted in a two year program that only takes limited students each year. The program is in the state I currently live in with my family. My husband wants to move to another state, where his parents are. They need support and help, he wants to move and have them live with us. They are very old so I understand he wants to take care of them. My daughter just started 2nd grade. He is saying to move within the month and have her start in the other state. Now if I wait until my program finishes, she will be finishing 3rd grade and will start 4th grade in the other state when we move. Moving to another state scares me, it is a new unknown place for me. I don't know the schools or the communities. What I am most concerned about is her schooling, will she be able to make friends? She is shy and panics easily. I have talked to her, she has doesnt want to leave her friends, but is open to it. Should I quit my program and apply there so my daughter can start 2nd at the school or moving schools in 4 th grade is ok?