So ive started sleeping with this guy and its going great overall, im pretty new to sex- only lost my virginity in June, so besides that time (was a one night stand) this is the first guy i've properly slept with.

Im back from uni for the summer and have known this guy for 7+ years and we've got together and had a talking stage in the past so know each other very well.

Last time i saw him we went back to his and the sex was great- however during he started licking my ear, now this was fine, it was pretty good actually i think overall thats something i see myself enjoying. However what i didnt enjoy is he then fully put his tongue like inside my ear, kinda making out with it almost? and i wont lie i think it mustve been abit earwaxy cause then abit after when we started making out again i could definitely tell. Its seriously seriously making me cringe mostly on my behalf cause like ew but in my defense i wasn't expecting a boys tongue to be fully inside my ear canal that night.

Things have had abit less momentum since although he did invite me round to his after that (it fell through but) so im assuming i cant have put him off too much? but like

i dont know i need some opinions 😂 abit to embarrassed to tell my friends yet.