Not sure if it’d advice I’m needing or just to vent. We have a 4 year old boy, 2 year old girl and I’m really wanting one more. Like, REALLY. I’m feeling deep sadness and some anger that we could be done. I’ve been trying to talk my husband into it, but he has seemed pretty set on just 2. His reasons are, he feels too old (we’re 38) wants times for hobbies and just overall isn’t into the idea. I’m feeling so frustrated by this because it really doesn’t seem fair. I hate that this is something I feel SO passionate about and am so distraught over and his unwillingness to bend on it. I handle the vast majority of the day to day with them. Pickups, arranging childcare, doctors office visits, bed time, feeding, clothes and the mental load that comes with raising kids. I’ve never said he can’t golf, or go out on your motorcycle, work out, whatever it is he is wanting to do. We have plenty of money, we live in Ohio and each make well over 6 figures so finances aren’t a concern. I work FT.

I know there is really no answer here. Just feeling very sad and angry with this situation.