I am currently 7w 2d and I have been thinking do I want a gender reveal, I talked to my boyfriend about it and all he had to say was it’s a waste of time and stupid. I was thinking of having one but everytime I try to bring up the topic with him he shuts me down. Though when I talked to my stepmom about she was all for it was even going to convince my dad to do a burnout for it, well not if my boyfriend doesn’t get on board. I found out when I was only 3 weeks pregnant that I was and ever since that day he has been acting colder to me and always shuts down anything to do with this baby. So I’m not suprised he doesn’t want one but shouldn’t he at least do it because I want it? I know he didn’t have one with his son, he had his son in a previous marriage and who is now 5, but that’s because his ex wife didn’t want one either. He also won’t give me a real reason other than it’s a waste of time on why not to have one. Even a baby shower was turned down by him, he says it’s weird for his second kid, this is my first. Sometimes I feel as though I made a mistake being with him in the first place, so if anyone has any idea on how to handle this or if I should have a gender reveal please let me know 🥺