Hey guys Im.not.sure if.this.is the right place to post or not. My husband and i have 2 kids, both NICU babies. Our youngest has lasting medical conditions and recieves in home in home nursing care. We decided that we were done having kids after our 2nd due to me and baby nearly dying during my.pregnancy. But recently my husband and were talking about how.sad we were that we only have 2 (we both always wanted.4). Now we have been discussing trying for #3 but i am terrified of another NICU stay.