My boyfriend has been dealing with the death of his grandpa recently he passed Aug 2nd and I’ve been there for him every step of the way his mother who he doesn’t have a great relationship with also is going through depression and her abusive ex texted him and his sister that she feels like his mom is suicidal (his mother is not his grandpa’s daughter).

recently his behavior has been so gross because of this upcoming election I would like mention that him and I are different races he is white I’m half AA& Mexican this will be important; he constantly send me articles and tweets about Kamala and it’s bothering me, now I’m not very political nor am I voting for Kamala but as someone who is of mixed race just like her him sending me these false accusations about what she did while being a prosecutor is bothersome it’s coming off very aggressive and anti-black. We were supposed to hang out Saturday and go get food and hang at his favorite park but I got upset because he sent another tweet in regards to Kamala that triggered me and told him:

“You have a lot of smoke for Kamala. 99% of the things you send are directed towards her I’m side eyeing fyi”

It’s making me uncomfortable now.

He sent two thumbs up and so I canceled hanging out with him, we haven’t spoken since Saturday. He tweeted that he would be taking a break from social media but had not communicated with me.

I’m trying to give him grace because he’s going through a lot right now but I just feel disrespected we’ve stressed the importance of communication and I always do he never does unless I ask him about anything that’s bothering him about me, this two day no communication is not sitting well with me.

Clarification:

So it seems like someone is confused on why I’m so upset with the Kamala tweets 1. I never said my boyfriend was a racist I said the tweets he’s been sending are making me uncomfortable and I’d like to explain why. Recently there has been a small divide between AA & Palestinian’s where an Arab who has a racist history called AA colonizers he then sent me tweets that have been rooted in Anti-blackness in Defense of that girl and then defended what the Arab girl said, we have talked about how the divide came out of nowhere since Palestinian’s and AA have always supported one another. When Sonya Massey was unalived it triggered me and I expressed to him how upset I was about that disgusting video and how exhausted I was seeing BW demonized just for existing, he supported me through that only for a few days later unprovoked sent me a tweet from a BM bashing BW as a collective which only opened up room for others to mock BW as “undesirable” and “aggressive”.