Me and my husband only have one child. He's a miracle baby so he's pretty spoiled. He's not mean or anything to people but for his birthday we always throw him really big parties. He invites his entire grade. We also live in a tiny town. There is one elementary school. One middle. And one high school. We have his party out of town though and always get a big venue. Last year was kind of a bummer. He turned 16 and invited the entire Junior year. The problem was there was a concert that was happening in the city 45 minutes away from us. So not a lot of people showed up which did disappoint him. A girl in his grade posted pictures of the party on Snapchat on kind of made fun of the fact that not a lot of people showed up. He's having his birthday again this year and invited all the senior except her. He said if his party is such a boring piece a shit she doesn't have to come. I'm conflicted. On one hands it's his birthday and it's extremely rude to shame someone for not a lot of people showing up. So she brought that on herself. On the other hand being the only one not invited seems mean.

@leslie I've tried talking to him about it. He just says you don't come into his space and make fun of him and shame him for people not showing up. My husband says it's his birthday and it's what he wants for it.

@G we live in a tiny town which is why he invites the whole grade. Get your point though. However chances of that happening are slim since according to my son a lot of people told her that's shitty to do and you don't fun of someone like that on their birthday.