I would like a POV on an issue I’ve been having with my partner for a few weeks now.

So I’ve been in a relationship for a little over a year now & recently my partner has started a new job. Since he’s started this new job he’s told me that his female coworkers have been trying to come on to him ( she snatched his vape out of his hand. He says “Give me back my f’n vape “ then she continues to hit it then he says “get your short ass on “ ). Also, he didn’t tell me about this interaction someone else who was working at the correctional facility told me about this. I did feel

Uncomfortable about this so I let him know and he told me he set boundaries and he didn’t entertain her. So I take note of tht information he’s told me, so after he told me about the coworkers hitting on him I honestly didn’t feel any discomforting feelings towards it. Then after he finished his orientation week he let me know that his coworkers invited him to celebrate, they all planned to celebrate at one of the male coworker's houses. But they all ended up going to the female coworker's house that was coming on to my partner, so he neglected to tell me this which I wouldn’t expect to tell me everything he does. So once he came home after celebrating he lmk what they did etc. but lied and told me he was at the male coworkers' house but was really at the female coworkers' house. P.s. I found this out by going through his phone so while he was out celebrating I guess they decided to exchange socials mind you they already have each other's phone numbers because they’re all in a “coworker “ gc. So he’s currently following the female coworker on Instagram who tried to come on to him the Same one I mentioned, he tells me that isn’t like that and they just work together but it’s the ONLY female coworker he follows. I confronted him about him following her, I asked him “What are your intentions behind following her on social media ?” Especially since yall already have each other's phone numbers. (I asked him to unfollow her ) He says to be secure in your spot & I can’t control who he follows or who he talks to. And also while he was celebrating he decided to share his location with not just one female coworker but another one as well. I just feel like overall he doesn’t really respect the boundaries of the partnership and I’m really coming to a conclusion of leaving him

Even though I just moved in with him but before I moved in and before he started working this wasn’t going on. So I just want to know if I’m being controlling or am just respecting my boundaries in my partnership.