Hi so my child’s dad and I have been broken up for a while we went through this whole ordeal of “I’m not happy here” but then I found out he was actually cheating (still won’t admit it) so I kicked him out (we were in my mothers home) he was doing disrespectful things such as (talking to other women, watching inappropriate things/following inappropriate things) so I said yeaaah buddy this isn’t going to work. Long story short he found a “place” to live in within 3 days. When I asked about it he wouldn’t give me any details. A few months pass by and we’re working on our “relationship” come to find out he’s actually living with person he “didn’t cheat on me with” I stopped talking to him and just co parented for about 5 months. He begged to be back with me so I gave in and said ok. Now it’s been 6 months we finally decided to move in together into an apartment. BUT I told him before we live together please take me on a date and ask me out properly. So of course we move in 4 months later I’m asking him like “hello? we moved in together when are you going to ask me?” All he kept saying is “on the perfect day x2” so one day I got fed up and asked again he then says”I don’t think I’m ready for a relationship after everything I’ve been through” LIKE WHAT also I know my fault for moving in but like I thought BY DOING THIS it was gonna “IMPROVE” our relationship now I don’t know how to tell him I’m not happy here and don’t want to play “house” especially when he comes home and thinks he’s done nothing wrong and pretends to play lovey dovey with me.