I'm very new to dating..

But like.. I feel this isn't normal.

I have went out with a couple of guys and had a long distance thing going on with another.

All of them seem(ed) to be VERY into me. And that feels weird because I can't obviously be everyone's cup of tea?

I'm just not very used to getting this kind of attention, but also it makes me feel like I'm aiming too low?

Maybe I'm aiming in exactly the right pool of people.. idk..

But it also makes me feel like.. I shouldn't just settle for anyone..

But then who do I decide to settle with?

I am kinda freaked out how much guys are into me and how strong it is for them and mostly how soon they feel this way...

I'm considering to stop dating all together because it's truly overwhelming.

@Nadia

I'm not dating several men at thesame time, some of them I felt sure enough were not the right person and I told them that.

But it's like.. too much?

I truthfully like them (the guys i've had contact Ith so far), they seem nice and genuine and kind etc.. but none of the guys I've met so far have really been able to make me feel warm and fuzzy inside.

So idk if I should just give it more time or move on to find a better connection.

ETA (for downvoter I think?) :

I am not posting to brag or whatever, I am really bothered by this and seeking advise.

I do have low self esteem, caused by decades of emotional abuse (stemming from my childhood into adulthood) and I do have a tendency to go for "wrong men".

since I was 17, I've been with 5 men of which at least 2 were abusive, control abuse or emotional abuse combined with financial abuse. 3 of those did jail time either before or after our relationship. (never during)

I think deep down I don't believe I'm good enough for a "good quality man", which is why I am more attracted to traits that are more prone to guys with bad history or intentions. My other theory is that I'm seeking out what is familiar.. but that hasn't been my best bet so far so IDK why..