Help. I literally feel like I’m suffocating and I don’t know what is going on.

I’m losing the enthusiasm in my relationship. I don’t know if I have fallen out of love or it’s the fact it has not progressed.

I’ve been with him for 11 years now. I met him when I was 19. At the time I was going to college so marriage was not a priority for either of us.

I only see him once a week (Sunday) we live 70 miles away. With no traffic it’s 1 hour exact. We still commute to each others house…recently for the past year we have been meeting half way..go eat and go home.

I’m 30 now and I’m thinking wtf am I doing now? He says we will eventually get a place but when? How much more time do I have to wait?