Sex drive while pregnant

Alexi

I need some advice, help, encouragement or whatever. Currently 20 weeks pregnant and i have zero, like ZERO sex drive! At first I thought first trimester, it will come back…but nope! Nothing, nada! I don’t even want my bf to touch me a certain way, i have no interest in making out or do any kind of foreplay. I feel so bad for him and he is being understanding, because he knows that is not how I usually am. I love him so much, he is the best thing that has happened to me. Its been 1 month since the last time and i only did it, because i was starting to feel bad and as soon as it was over, i wanted him off of me right away. Is this normal!?? I always heard that pregnant women had a high sex drive. Some context: first baby and I am 40