My friend Ashley is currently pregnant with her third child. Now Ashley doesn’t work and basically mooches off her family. She currently lives with her sister and brother in law, sharing a room with her two current children.

Recently Ashley’s sister , Meghan has been making a lot of comments about having to take care of kids she didn’t make . “i shouldn’t have too” “ all she does is lay around and make kids. When will this end ?” - Ashley heard all of this and is understandably hurt by it.

I see both sides here . I’d be hurt if my sister said that. However ,Meghan has a point . All Ashley has done is have kids and barely ever work. She relies on the government for EVERYTHING. Ashley then made a comment about Meghan that I definitely do not agree with. “I’m three seconds away from asking , are you jealous because you can’t have any” …

When she sent that to me, in reference to her sister, i was shocked . Especially as she knows my husband and I have experienced infertility for 6+ years. That’s such an insensitive comment to make just because someone spoke TRUTH on the situation. I called her out on it and she’s claiming she only said it because Meghan kept making slick comments. I don’t think that it matters. All of these petty comments could’ve been kept to themselves.

Adding - I see both sides because her sister doesn’t deserve to take care of Ashley and her kids all the time . It’s unfair to her to take on the task , but she also CHOSE too and could always say no. I told Meghan months ago to remove Ashley from the house and tell her to get on her feet.

I’ve told Ashley that she’s a mooch and needs to do better for her kids. I stick around for the kids to make sure they are okay.