Am I in the wrong?

marsh

Am I in the wrong for not making dinner the past few nights when husband doesn’t show up at the house? And the last time I made it he didn’t even eat it AND he stayed outside for 5 hours on his phone doing whatever while I was handling our toddler & newborn. Husband got off work almost 4 hours ago if not longer. We spoke on the phone around noon and he told me what he wanted for dinner. But then he doesn’t show up to the house until 7 pm and then he chills outside and on the phone or scrolling on his phone. I go for a walk with our oldest (on a weight loss journey) and tell him he needs to go watch our newborn. He says OK and doesn’t even look at me. I come back and he asks why we weren’t eating tacos tonight for dinner. I tell him me & the boys ate HOURS ago - he had stuff in the oven. Well.. our newborn wouldn’t let me put him down and my husband was running around all over gods creation without updating me and then just chilling outside with no cares in the world for his family. So why would I continue making elaborate meals for 3 people when I can eat leftovers he didn’t touch and make our toddler his meal ? 🤷🏼‍♀️ am I in the wrong or would you do the same? I’m sick of being treated like I’m a nobody.