I'd love a partner more than anything but I'm soooo not ready for sex. I'd need so much time to get comfortable with the thought of that so it always makes me run away when a guy shows interest in me as I always seem to believe they'll expect sex too soon for me.

I'm a massive people pleaser and hate conflict so I'm afraid I'll do it even if I don't want too so it's massively putting me off a relationship.

This is taking over my life... Any advice?