I had a close friend. Her now husband was close friends with my husband and they went to college together. How our friendship fell apart is that their friendship fell apart. My close friends husband had this person on their college football team that he didn't like. This guy SA'd my husband. That's not why his former friend hated him. He hated him prior. My husband told my former friends husband. Her husband recorded the conversation and shopped around this voice recording against my husband's wishes. He wasn't doing this to help my husband. He was doing this because he didn't like the person and played it for anyone who would listen. My husband got stressed and tried to kill himself. My best former friend defended her husband (was her boyfriend then) doing that and that's how everything fell apart. Since then her husband has continued to more or less flaunt that voice recording. Me and her haven't spoken in 6 years and her and him got married. She randomly reached out to me and said she's missed me and sent me a pregnancy test that she's pregnant now. Would you respond to that? Part of me missing her. At the same time she defended a shit person and then chose to marry a shit person.