My mom and sister's say i am. Today is my boyfriends birthday he just turned 29 !!!!! And he's never had a birthday cake I'LL TELL YOU !?... he grew up with a mom that didn't let him eat any sugar at birthday parties , he didn't know what a soda tasted like or how a burger tasted like till he was 25 yrs old when we met . His mom and his ex use to literally drill cook him stuff he didn't like his ex use to manage the cards to see why he took cash out or why did you stop at this place . So when we met i invited him to my niece first birthday he was so lost i felt bad so i took food from the birthday took it back home and sat with him and asked him if he was ok and stuff and thats when he told him all of that . We've been dating since 2021 3 yrs now . And he asked me for a chocolate cake and a flan so i ended up making him a flancocho < my latinos understand this lol> you mix both desserts into one really good !!! So while letting things cool off we went to target to the book store , shopping for him we get a notification from our home Camara his mom is at our home she let herself in. We raced back BECAUSE I JUST FUCKING KNEW SHE WAS GOING TO TRY AND DO SOMETHING STUPID!!!! We walked in and she had the cake in the sink running water on it < i started crying> i kicked her out and changed the locks my bf told her to leave and to not come back again he than drove to his parents home and told his dad what she did . He's dad was so mad he came to our home to apologize to me he cried also . I told my sister in law what she did my brother's wife and my mom was over there started talking shit that i had no.right to kick her out and . At around 6-7 pm my brother and wife came with the cake i had made same flavor and everything i didn't expect her to do that for him . My mom and sister went over to my in laws to comfort his mom and telling her i was out of line and that SHE WILL MAKE SURE I APOLOGIZE! WTF