Who would I go to to talk about my current relationship struggles? Long story short, late fiance passed just shy of 2 years ago. While I still love and miss him terribly, I know I need to move on in my life as everyone else has. I’ve tried putting myself out there and so far (idk if I’m the issue or I’m getting with the wrong dudes) but the 2 guys I’ve dated were only like 2ish month situationships when I all I want is a serious relationship again. Both guys said they wanted something serious and everything is great in the beginning but only to find out after time when they stop putting effort in and don’t want to do anything except hangout at their place and then were the ones to end things and move onto the next had me think am I the problem? Or am I without realizing going backwards and lowering my standards? Anyways it’s been 6 months since I’ve been on a date and while the idea and desire to want a guy again and marriage is there, I can’t bring myself to get engaged with anyone. Like I’ll be attracted to a guy but then it fades ASAP after like a week or two or a couple hangouts/talks, like a meh mentality. Or I’m just not excited anymore to meet someone and I go back to not even focusing on wanting to date although it’s in the back of my mind, it’s the effort part or whatever or fear especially of being discouraged that the next guy will also will be like the others and I get blindsided again. It’s almost like I don’t see the point of dating because you’re just going to break up, and that’s what I tell myself or I also go into it (internally) with a negative mindset preparing for another failed dating stage. It’s like a weird vicious cycle I’m worried isn’t going to end and I feel stuck! Would I talk to a relationship coach on this or a grief counselor? I’m honestly at a complete loss on how to fix what I’m struggling with. I’m 28 and don’t want to waste or miss out on whatever potential with whatever blockage this is.