I got a morale dilemma if y’all want to weigh in on it. For my baby shower I got mainly gift cards majority to the same store. I held on to most of them, I won’t be working during the holiday season and now I have two small children. Figured they would come in handy. Fast forward to me having the baby. My step daughter is there. I’d say I’m fairly close to my step kids. She leaves the hospital with her dad to go back to our house to clean. I definitely didn’t go any nesting, my kids like to come early and my bf is actually the clean freak between us but he’d been doing a lot of OT in preparation of the baby. While they are at the house my bf gives his daughter two of the gift cards totaling over 100 dollars and a list of stuff to buy at the store for the house. She is 18 btw lives with her boyfriend and his family. So her dad and her run some errands and she eventually meets back up with her bf to run to the store and get the stuff from the list and my bf is to return back to the hospital to be with me. In all of this my daughter realized she no longer had the cards figured she lost them between all the errands they had been to several stores. She pays for everything off the list with her own money. She works a decent job made about the same as me when I was working. Doesn’t have a car note or rent. Or kids. Not saying she rich but definitely doesn’t have the same burdens as an adult. Which I’m glad she’s still a kid at the end of the day. So we are 2 months post baby and I’m full into project mode when it comes to cleaning the house like rearranging the pantry cleaning out closets cleaning. I pulled out a bookcase today that hasn’t been moved since we moved in 3 years ago. Holds extra books, kids toys and anything too large to fit in our pantry. I found the gift cards behind the bookcase. In your opinion do I have time give them to my step daughter?