I found out my husband has been sending this girl we been fighting about for years money. I asked him and he lied to my face but i had the proof. Before this he was gaslighting me but when he knew i had proof he was just quiet and said sorry.

How is it ok for him to rather fight with me and keep his friendship with her.

Why not be honest and open with me.

I have no proof they are dating or not cz he deleted all their messages. I just saw transitions only.

Im not angry, im just blank and so tired😫.

He is sleeping peacefully now. I got just a sorry and thats it. Im still up and in my feelings.

Is this how marriage is supposed to be like??

I am just venting.😞

No reassurance

Nothing