My fiance and I both have tried to finger me but we can only make it in a little bit then what feels like a wall is blocking us from going any further. I have regular to heavy periods so I know my hymen isn’t completely blocking my vagina but I feel no way to go in further. I don’t even know if I still have my hymen or not. I’ve heard it can go away with age. I’m 23. I’ve never had a Pap smear done but was told I didn’t need one unless I was having sex or having health problems which I’m not. Has anyone else experienced this or know what might be going on? I’m getting married within the next 6months and the fact that me and my fiance can’t “open me up” yet is worrying me.