I am 21 and I have only had sex with a man one time. It wasn’t anything special but I figured it wouldn’t be the first time. I have now tried doing stuff with toys and found that I have absolutely no pleasure with penetration alone. In fact it is pretty uncomfortable and and even painful. I have also had sex with women which was much more pleasurable but I think it was because it was external play only. Am I weird. Does anyone else experience this?!??