Husband is in jail and my daughter is pregnant Update
My daughter is 16. I've already been really emotional because two months ago my son made the decision to go live with his dad. It's been really hard but me and him are talking again and he seems to be doing fine. He's 18 now. I can't control his decision. He's ADHD is on stimulants which he lost them here. Important to the story.
My daughter calls me crying last week because my husband decides to be a fucking lunatic and take a gun to a boys house. I asked what was going on. This boy got her pregnant. My husband found the pregnancy test. I can't have anymore kids. My tubes are tied. So he knew it was her and was yelling at her and dragged her to this boy house. Decides to be a lunatic and shoot at their window. My husband has always had bad anger issues and been extremely irrational but this but more than he's ever done. He shoots at a 15 year olds window and ends their door was unlocked because his mom was going in and out so he goes in their home and pulls a gun on this child yelling that he got our daughter pregnant.
My husband of course was arrested and facing like 4 different felonies. I have not spoken to him. Who got my daughter pregnant is a teenage drug addict. He's known for being on drugs. My daughter was crying and explaining to me how this happened and she confessed to me that to make money she had been selling her brothers stimulants because she found the bottle. He is on Adderall. How they even ended up having sex is he bought from her once before and they met at a party that she admitted she snuck out to and he wanted to get more off her but didn't have money. She was horny and drunk and exchanged sex for the Adderall. So she participated in fucking prostitution!
I have spoken to the kids parents to apologize even though an apology isn't enough and I'm taking my daughter to a clinic today because neither one of these kids need to be a damn parent. And before anyone starts, we've talked about it. She's on board with it. Save your pro life talk for someone who cares. I feel like she needs therapy because to just decide to make all these bad decisions when she's usually not like this is concerning and her dad possibly going to prison is already going to be traumatizing.
Edit: Okay to say I need to be a better role model when you don't know shit about me is ridiculous. You don't know why my son moved in with his dad. It's completely unrelated to this and me and him fine. Also if we are going to go by the actual definition of a prostitute, the boy who got my daughter pregnant is the prostitute. He had sex to get something which for him was Adderall. So he was the one prostituting himself whereas my daughter was the one soliciting the prostitute. Both unexceptionable as minors but by definition my daughter was not the prostitute. You know nothing at all about our lives. To say no wonder my son left when you have no idea why my son left is stupid. At the end of the day my daughter knows right from wrong and you don't sell your brother's Adderall.
Update: This is just a quick update that everything at the clinic went well and they did give me resources of therapy places. My daughter so far has only give me the reason that she just wanted to make money and figured her brother would get more when it comes to selling his meds. I think once she's completely recovered her punishment will be getting an ACTUAL job to make money. I want her to understand selling drugs. Especially other people's medication is not ok.
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