I am seeing a guy for like... Maybe a little over a week? Two weeks?. What we do is mainly sex but like he invited me to a friend's BBQ at some point and weve hung out at a few events we normally go to anyway but never noticed each other at.

I would be okay if it was just sex. I also like what I've seen from him as a person so I would also be open to a relationship. Is a week in too early to go "hey just so I temper my emotions correctly. Is this just casual sex or do you want a relationship, because I'm fine with either but would like to know where to keep my expectations."

Because oh god the sex is MIND-BLOWING and I want to keep having it in whatever capacity I can. I left an abusive ex 2 years ago that had stopped caring about anything but his own pleasure and I'd forgotten sex could feel so GOOD. This guy matches my freak in every way. Can be gentle. Can be rough. Checks in with changes. Pulls my hair when he hits it from behind and yet kisses me down the body like it's worship. I don't want to lose this sex and honestly I am okay if it just stays sex but I'm worried about scaring him away with "the talk"