Lately, I’ve been feeling so sexually unattractive. My partner used to be very touchy and had a high sex drive and was always trying to have sex. Now suddenly, he doesn’t even randomly grab my butt or boobs anymore or tell me the things he used to. When we do have sex, I’m the one initiating but it’s not how it was before. He just doesn’t act into it anymore. I feel like I’m doing all the work and it’s just not enjoyable anymore because it doesn’t feel like he’s actually wanting to. We used to have fun, rough sex but it’s just completely different now. It makes me feel like he doesn’t like how I look anymore. And I don’t feel like he’s attracted to me anymore. It sucks being rejected by my own partner. Lately, he’s been so much better about communication, being patient, and spending time with me. It’s just the sex that is different. I’ve tried to talk to him, and he just says he’s been exhausted. Which I understand him being exhausted from work. But there used to be no problem before and it’s been like this the last 3 weeks. I’ve asked if there is anything I can help him with. I’ve offered a massage. But he even declines that. Has anyone ran into this with their partner. He’s also 24, so it doesn’t have to do with age. How can I help him feel less exhausted and bring back the spice to our relationship? I’m at a loss.