Okay so first off I'm a mom of 4 and 36. I had my tubes supposedly cut tied and burned December of 2018. However my kids and I moved states about 3 yrs ago and while trying to get all our medical records I learned that my old obgyn who did my surgery, his offices and the hospitals in the town they use (I can't remember which one I had it done at so I requested the record from all of them) aside from my post op appointment have no record of the surgery. Now on my post op appointment record it says tubal occlusion follow up. That's all I know.

Here's the confusion. My last period was 9/21/24. It was 3 days late but normal. Of course my boyfriend and I did the deed unprotected like always everyday leading up to Aunt Flo's arrival. And when Aunt Flo is here we use the backdoor only. I should also note I have pmdd so the week before and of my periods I'm a hot mess. Well we are now well past my period ending by over a week and ovulation being done. My period is due the 16th. Around now I'm normal happy go lucky. But this entire week and it's getting worse by the day I've been more emotional and moody than I was on my period! I wake up with headaches I don't normally have. I've been eating my nausea medicine like crazy. And by emotional I'm talking my 3 emotions right now are either crying whether it's happy or sad tears, snapping and being angry for no reason all of a sudden, or just being overwhelmed and so tired and unable to handle life. I feel totally out of control. To the point everyone's begun asking if I'm okay. I'm not. The way I feel is too much like deja vu to every pregnancy I've had. I took a first response yesterday out of desperation for an answer to what's going on and of course it's negative because it's too early. But if my tubes were done we need to know ASAP due to the risk of it being ectopic. My question I guess is could this be the miracle baby we've kind of wished for since we got together? I have 2 more tests and planned to try testing again the 14th and waiting to see if my period shows the 16th and if she doesn't I'll take the digital the 17th. Should I do the second test sooner I need it to be as accurate as can be. Thank you in advance!!!!