In 45 with 2 teens and one adult. My son asked to go to a friend's house and I said sure. He left his phone and I see a message from a girl. It's cropped to protect her identity and I made sure to leave her address out of it. But the problem isn't even that he lied to me and was going to go have sex. I've had the safe sex talk. THIS IS THE PROBLEM!

Maybe I'm triggered because I lost both my dad and brother to drugs but I gps'd that address. Went to that house. Found my son and long story short I told him he's grounded for the rest of his life and told the girl if I catch her talking to my son again not only will I call the cops for her possessing fentanyl. I'm going to be arrested too because I'm gonna have my foot so far up her ass. I'm not proud of that. I however am not going let my kids go down the addiction route. I watched it happen and kill two people I love. But he's mad because he liked her and I embarrassed him.

Edit: Didn't mean to confuse. My teenager is who's phone I went through.