What should I do ?

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The thing is I hate my body and by hate I mean HATE my body.
I’m a  student (a nerd some might say)and I have no life outside of studying, not because it’s what I want but it’s because it’s what I can do.
I see pretty girls taking videos and being gorgeous like super models with their flat tummies and hourglass bodies but I have a belly and huge glasses and ABSOLUTELY no fashion sense.
I get mocked about my looks every single day.Me  getting straight As or being the captain of the STEM team doesn’t matter. 
It hurts you know…..being the ugly girl and there’s nothing I can do about it.
Deep down I also want to look pretty and take pictures but once again here I am starving myself and going to bed crying after looking at the posts of the pretty girls.
Is there any hope for me to ever be like them🥺😞

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This sounds like you need therapy. Having an eating disorder can turn dangerous. If you want to change how you look, do it in a healthy way. Restrict calories. Change how you dress. Get different glasses. But doing it in a healthy way and learning to love yourself is equally important. I’m sorry you’re going through such a rough time

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First of all stop comparing. Ignoring them, are you happy with yourself and how you look? If yes then who cares what people say/think? If you arent happy, start with buying a few new outfits or some basic makeup. Nothing crazy, just start small. If you need help ask a friend, or do it on your own eg go get your eyebrows done or go to an affordable store and ask the worker to bring you some new pieces that she likes. Reminds me of the movie Big Fat Greek Wedding lol. Dont try to look like other people though, I actually dont like a lot of the modern trends, focus on being happy with yourself because that is what will attract good energy to you. I have always had a belly, it's just my body type, but I dress myself according to my body type.

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There are things you can do to change your body and your looks, but it all begins within yourself with your mindset. Without changing your mindset, you can look exactly like one of those women that you envy and still not feel good enough. I promise you that some of them still feel the same way you do. Having good self-esteem is the most important part about feeling beautiful and without that, even the most beautiful woman will not feel it. Don't compare yourself to others. It's not helpful. Stop starving yourself. Also not helpful. You deserve to eat food just like everyone else. Choose healthy foods and make sure you're being active. It is so sad to see young women like you going through this type of suffering. I did when I was your age as well and now as an older woman, I look back and think of how beautiful I was, but I never recognized it until I was older. It is so important to learn how to accept yourself and love yourself even though you may not love certain parts of your body. Your body is carrying you through this world and it's doing a damn good job of it. Give it the respect it deserves. ￼

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You can change how you look if you want to, but don't compare yourself to anyone. Be the best version of you! Work with what YOU have! If you try to look like someone else you'll never be happy.

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