Anon purely due to the content, not trying to badmouth anyone, just seeking some direction lol. I got married at 18 so after 12 years of marriage (I’m 30) and 3 beautiful babies, my husband and I still have a very passionate fulfilling and fun relationship with each other. I have a friend who got married very young also and I’m just trying to decide if it would be wise to distance myself from her based off things that have happened. Firstly, when she was 19 (and already married) she slept with her husband’s brother and got pregnant but hid everything so her husband thought the kid was his, then she had a kid with her husband, and now that second kid is 2 and she separated from her husband because she’s been serially cheating on him and wants to do it freely now, claiming she married him too young and wants to have sex with different men. She pushed him to take a job out of state so he’s gone for many months of the year and that’s why she got away with the cheating…. She’s sleeping with many different men regularly, and I’m concerned one child is being molested because the last time we had a play date he tried to touch MY child privately in my own home and thankfully my kids are equipped to deal with that so nothing happened and my child told me about it immediately. Her husband is absolutely crushed, heartbroken, and shell shocked by everything that’s come out, and he doesn’t know what to do. She doesn’t want a divorce because she doesn’t work and he pays all the bills, and she doesn’t want to get a job🙃 she wants to stay separated and have him pay the bills while she runs around having sex with whoever she fancies and partying….she drops her kids off with random people and regularly disappears to other states to party with friends. I’m just totally shook. I didn’t know any of this was going on until it “all came out” as I’m pretty busy homeschooling 2 young kids and also have a toddler plus we have a small farm and etc, so anyways now that all this has come out I kinda can’t fathom how anyone could be so insane and low quality I guess, and I don’t even feel comfortable around her… am I overreacting? Is it bad of me to not want to be around her anymore?? 🫠

ETA: I told her about the thing between the kids and have not allowed any further play dates ever since then.

****thank you everyone!!! I didn’t wanna come off judgy but this whole thing is so screwed up I just don’t ever wanna see her again and I feel ter hole for her kids 😭