I've never been to my boyfriends job. He works at a place for troubled boys. It's a program where they go to school for a few hours and then do hard labor work all day. They also live there and my boyfriend is the director. As I said I've never been there. The reason I was is because they were hiring for a part time teacher. I used to teach but haven't in years. My boyfriend d also wouldn't mind me working there. We wouldn't see each other anyway. Well when I went in for my interview I could just open the door and come in. No security. No locked doors. No nothing. I could just come right in. I had to walk around looking for where I was supposed to go. I ended up in one area and I realized I was in the boys dorm. So anyone can just come in and go to the boys dorm room? The most upsetting things I saw was I could see them working outside. I know it's fall but it's warm here. It was in the 80's today. I saw the staff... And my boyfriend yelling at them that they don't get water until they finish the job. I watched my own boyfriend take a jug of water and pour it out in front of them and say that's their water and told them to smile for pictures for their parents and anyone not smiling doesn't get dinner. I didn't even go to the interview after that and I was talking to my boyfriend about it. He said he's sorry he upset me but I'm a woman and it's normal for me to care. His job is to turn young troubled boys into men. I told him that him denying them water and food can get them in legal trouble. He asked was I saying that because I'm going to tell and told me not to forget which job pays the bills. I know I'm not a teacher anymore because I'm not a mandated reporter anymore but I feel I should report this because it's not right. You can't deny children water working out in the heat all day and also deny them food because they won't fake smile for a picture for their parents. I've heard people on tiktok talk about their trauma from the troubled teen industry. If I anonymously report he will know it's me... But this is wrong. We have a son together. I would never want him in that place.