Is it ok for my bf to act this way?
I’ve always been into the gym and always been a person who loves working out. My bf met me knowing this. He hates the gym and hates working out. He’s a very slim guy! Gym hasn’t been an issue until recently. It just got worse today!
About a month ago, my bf found out a guy at the gym asked me out on a date. Long story short, a guy approached me in a friendly matter a while back and suggested some tips while I was trying to reach my new personal record. Since that encounter he would always say hello or wave at me. But we were never close! We ever had formal conversations at the gym or got to know each-other personally. One day he came up to me and asked me for my number so he can take me out on a date. I kindly rejected him and told him I have a bf. He looked truly embarrassed and apologized. We both just laughed it off but he continued to say hi when he saw me Again, everything was very respectful and he didn’t cross any boundaries. My bf found out through a mutual friend who is no longer our friend (another long story)
Since then he gets very insecure I go to the gym.
I went today at 8pm! My bf had not texted me since 6pm because he got caught at work. Around 8:30pm he called while I was working out. I picked up to kindly tell him I was busy at the gym. He flipped on me and said “so is that dude there?” I was so bothered and just wanted to cry …i told him to please stop and hung up! he was giving me so much anxiety!!!!! i couldnt focus at the gym… he texts many time and calls 15 times. i couldnt even listen to music bc my phone kept ringing
He asked who I was with and I said my brother. He asked for a picture which I send one of myself. I’m in the weights section and my brother always runs! That’s why he asked for a picture of the treadmill
Also the pic I sent I had a sweater on so idk what he means by I had no bra…
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