bringing partners around kid
OK long story short , My babies dad has a girlfriend that he told me was in rehab about a month ago for fentanyl . Well one way or another she’s not in rehab a week or so later . We’ve talked previously about dating ppl exclusively for atleast 6 months before bringing them around , He told me he’s been talking to her and other girls on and off for 9 months but SHE told me only 3 WEEKS when i met her . ( not sure of details bc i didn’t ask ) . Anyways She has a 3 month old daughter she doesn’t have custody of due to her using, I told my babies dad i Would meet her but I wasn’t really interested in her being around my daughter until I knew she was sober , and until she got her OWN kids back and. Anyways He told me he understood , when i went to drop her off saturday he told me He didn’t care what I thought & that she was going to be around regardless. I met her & i like her but After finding out she was in rehab for fentanyl and didn’t finish the rehab and also finding out she doesn’t have custody of her 3 month old daughter makes me concerned for my daughters safety especially knowing they’ve only been exclusive for 3 weeks . He only gets mt daughwr one day a week ( saturday) for maybe 8 hours . I don’t see why he can’t just spend that time with his daughter . I’m tired of meeting girls every 4 months . He doesn’t have to bring everyone around my daughter especially someone who doesn’t have custody of their own kids . I don’t know what to do anytime i bring it up to him it’s a fight & he can’t see my side of things . Nothing is court ordered and i’m feeling like i should revoke his rights to see her unless it’s supervised or until i know the girl is sober
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