My dad thinks this is an apology

This is an update to a post I made about my husband sitting during the national anthem. I reason I took that post down was because I got the answers I needed, however someone left a comment not really related to the post. It wasn't bad an funny enough was true but the comments people made after it I just thought "Oh no, this is going to get political." And I'm not interested in engaging in any of that. My previous post was about some shitty things my dad said to my husband about him sitting out the national anthem. My dad was not a vet but my grandfather is and so is my husband. My husband felt tricked into joining the army. He was approached by recruiters when he was in high school and in foster care. Just a lot of false promises on a teenager. He joined at 17. Before he turned 18 his commanding officer abused him and that continued for for a few years until he SAd him badly on deployment and left my husband to die in a desert. My husband was in the military 8 years and has developed a lot of PTSD and also has schizophrenia now. The VA has been useless and he is not grateful for his experience and sits out the national anthem. My dad has said some bad things when my husband sat out the national anthem at my nephew's homecoming came about my shouldn't be sitting out just because he was fucked by his CO. Some shit like that. He didn't finish that sentence because I slapped my dad across the face. My mom has been upset that the family is so split and my dad sent this "apology"

It's a bad apology and also my dad is aware that a good way to set my husband off is say that God saved him that day. My husband is extremely anti-organized religion and that is a good way to trigger him because he always say when people say that God saved him was no. He saved himself. That there was no God to help him. He walked with no water. Bleeding from horrible places and no feed for days until he found help because he told himself he's not going to die out here. Some people who say it mean no harm but my dad knows my husband hates when people say that. So feel intentional. Besides that the whole if you feel that way part of this apology is just shitty. I told my mom that wasn't a real apology. He's intentionally triggering my husband by saying things he knows he doesn't like and his apology is not it. My dad says he's not giving another apology and to take it or leave it.🙄