Im sorry if its hard to read or keep up, the situation just happened and im venting and just typing because none of my friends or family will listen … if you have any questions i will clarify .. this is my only way to vent its my therapy My bf always complains every other day or week abt me “ not doing sht. “ && “ jst sitting there “ which is 100% not true . I wake up everymorning , do a 45 min wrk out , make breakfast (EVERYDAY) wash clothes dishes .. whatever needs tobe done around the house i do . ALL WHILE HE SITS THERE ON YOUTUBE OR ON HIS PHONE DOING WHATEVER TF …. So i said like. At this point there’s nthn to even do … the house we live in is barely liveable because itsbis aunts house and she has 4 fckn cats && 3 HUGE ass dogs & a billion fckn fleas … there’s no kitchen or bathroom sink so when i wash dishes i have to fckn bend over a tub and wash them … EVERYDAY … there’s no tv or anything anywhere … i never wanna be downstairs cus thats where the animals are … we’re always in the room with the door closed .. there’s not even a tv or anything in there .. he jst smoke his weed and be on his phone day in & day out … i tld him IM BORED there’s nothing t do here , we never go anywhere , && thats why i be glad when i do go to work ,. Because it gives me something to do for 8 hours … he goes “ u never do different sht. Its always the same “ && my whole thing is , I DO EVERYTHING WITHOUT HAVING TO BE ASKED. I HAVE SEX W. HIM I RUB HIS BACK ( HE RARELY MASSAGES ME OR ANYTHING EVEN THO IM THE WORKING ONE ) AND IM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP BY MYSELF I TOLD HIM ALREADY I WANNA GO OUT SOMETIMES I WANNA HAVE DATES I WANNA DO SOMETHING OUTSIDE OF THE HOUSE && not by myself … i cant even tell u the last time we went out together … why should i over exert my energy whe its not reciprocated when i do … why should i do extra things on top of what im already doing when he gives me NOTHING … then he’s a culk so he also expects for me to please MULTIPLE MEN && HIM & if i dont participate w. Them the “ right way “ or “ perfectly “ its an issue … he tells me “ im waiting on you “ … WAITING FOR WHAT ??? To do something ?? THATS THE SAME THING IM DOING .. WAITING ON YOU BUT IM AWAYS THE ONE DOING SOMETHING … he tells me that everything im saying is bullshit & its an excuse & im playing w him because i said he wants me to carry the whole relationship while he sits back and do nothing & basically just use me for sex … we had sex everyday last week and it was peaches and cream … && PURPOSELY I havent had sex w. Him this week , AND I NOTICED A DRASTIC CHANGE. HE thrives on sex . Thats all he wants … he doesnt care about dates or making me happy he jst wants to have sex. Doesnt matterif im tired or mentally not there . WHY SHOULD I DO FOR A MAN WHO DOES NOTHING FOR ME ???