how would you ladies feel if the father of your child’s girlfriend spoke to your 16 year old like this?

how would you go about addressing this? i would love to talk to her father about the conversation that took place but when i sent him the messages he did not respond.

for background: i’m her older sister on her mothers side, i would love to take her but i am in nursing school a work overnights with no extra home space so am unable to take her in at this time.