postpartum sexually struggling

i had a regular vaginal delivery and had some stitches around my urethra and perineum. 3 weeks postpartum i’ve been starting to get romantic and feel sexy again with my fiance but my clit is numb and my bum still is healing from hemorrhoids and obviously the stitches are not healed yet and i dont really like giving head. im getting so frustrated i just want my sex life back, especially while the baby sleeps so much