Husband is IDK, I’m drained

My husband says he’s uncomfortable at home because of me and my dogs. I have 2 dogs whom he says he hates, any time we aren’t getting along he hates the dogs and when we’re fine he’s okay with the dogs. I asked him what am I doing to make him uncomfortable because I’d like to change it so that he can feel comfortable at home, I also offered to rehome the dogs. He told me that if I changed my behavior that he’d want to stay married to me (he wants a divorce) so I shouldn’t change my behavior. He told me one of the problems he has with me is that I reset the house for the week every Monday, he’s referring to me going out and getting groceries and things for our kids lunch and snacks. I told him that he can do the grocery shopping from now on if it’ll be better for him but he says he doesn’t want to because the last time he shopped I didn’t eat what he got. He’s correct, I don’t like the foods he picked out. He told me that I don’t have a job so he doesn’t understand who I think I am that I can have a choice. He’s referring to me not wanting to eat hot dogs, I haven’t liked hot dogs in a very long time. I honestly think he goes out and intentionally gets stuff he knows I won’t eat because he makes the money and I don’t. He mentioned me taking my own money (small amount of money from odd jobs) and buying things I like to eat. I told him I don’t see how me doing that is a problem and he said because after I spend my money I’ll use his to buy stuff. He is the only one employed right now, I’m in college full time (I was trying to get a degree to increase my earning potential for us) and we have a child that requires constant care so I won’t be able to get a job until the end of this semester. He’s now set up the account so that I’m not on the savings account and his pay check now goes into that account, he will only put money in the checking account if I ask and he approves. Today the rule has changed to me asking to purchase anything and he has to know what it is.