Why is there such a rush to get back to work for new mothers? I’m 3 month pp, and I get 5 months of paid leave. Had her in August and I’ll be returning Jan 2. I work with clients, and they want me back and I understand that but they keep asking. And so does my bosses. Direct supervisor, HR, clients, family, friends. I’ve been asked 6 or 7 times at this point & I’m irritated. I had a PP hemorrhage, bled for 9 weeks painfully. I’ve only stopped bleeding for 3 weeks… I still have an ultrasound next week to make sure everything is okay and might have a prolapse as well. I don’t feel like explaining that to anyone but I can sense the frustration with me not back yet. Also my PP anxiety is awful I recently got meds for it. I’m just not ready and getting really tired of feeling rushed. I want to enjoy the time I have with my children while I can to be here full time. Why is that such a bad thing