My husband and I have been married for 13 years. He just turned 40 and I’m 36. We have a 7yo son and a 4yo daughter. Just found out, on Thanksgiving, that I’m pregnant with baby #3. He is NOT happy. His anxiety is through the roof and he’s being very negative. I’m of the mindset that this will be fun since it’s been so long since we had a baby, and we can figure out any obstacle that comes our way. He is definitely not in this camp with me.

I’m sure this is selfish but his negative attitude is making me very upset and honestly, sick to my stomach. I am more than capable of going through this journey alone, but I thought we were together in everything. We talked about a third throughout the years and we were neither for nor against it. I figure just let nature take its course and here we are.

Again, I’m sure I’m looking being a jerk about this, but I’m very over his attitude and I’m about to tell him to f*%# off. Maybe it’s just pregnancy hormones lol. Anyway, any tips on how to deal with him would be greatly appreciated. TIA 😘