So this is my second, but this time I'm having a girl, and for some reason I just dont want a shower. I have registries with Amazon and Target, but even with those I'm on the fence on posting them. I dont have many girlfriends (literally I have 3) and I just dont have the spirit to throw one. I had one with my son and about 10 people showed up and I was a bit embarrassed after seeing other ladies showers and they had like 20 to 30 people show up and their showers seems to be way better organized then mine was, but I did put mine together all by myself with the little people that I know. I don'tknow. I feel like I jipping my daughter out on a memory I could share with her like I can with my son, but I just can't get the feeling of not wanting one :(