Am I having a baby with a deadbeat?
I’m 34 weeks pregnant and my partner and I just moved to an England (citizens).
He’s 31 and I’m 26.
I came here to study full time and He’s hoping to become a professional footballer. He’s found a team in his first week but he can’t start getting paid til mid January (AROUND MY DUE DATE)
I’m getting stressed because he isn’t looking for a job in the meantime he just keeps talking about opening a bakery business or selling his pastries to other cafes. We have NO SAVINGS.
My rent and bills are being paid by my scholarship and I’ve not been able to pay my tuition yet because of my pregnancy taking most of that money
He doesn’t seem to be taking the important thing seriously but will spend hours working out and researching workouts and diets, found a gym within days of landing and eats through our groceries like we have an abundance of grocery money. He cooks BUT DOESN’T CLEAN.
Am I wrong for being upset?
How do I bring this up to him?
Do I send him to a homeless shelter and do this alone?
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